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Uganda
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 Posted - 11/11/2005 : 00:50:02
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.Should a believer date a non-believer
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estar
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Uganda
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Posted - 01/16/2006 : 02:48:13
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| light does blend quite well with darkness. at a glance, there is a balance;semi-darkness and semi-light (neither hot nor cold). yet God requires us to hot (being cold of course takes you to hell) yet u cant be lukeworm because God will spit you out. but when light and light come togther, wow! the radiance is like Jesus' face (i assume). it's safer to be in the light. just like goats and sheep do not inter-marry, so should people when faith is the determining factor. Sis, bro, go for your own kind and life will be worth the living. |
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JDLM
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Uganda
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Posted - 02/08/2006 : 01:22:21
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| True to that Estar, I do think we need to intermingal with those that have the same faith with us. but one thing however is that though we may have the same faith and all that, we both have pasts that might hinder our relationship. But all in all, we should desist from dating non-believers. Their father is Satan, yes. Why? Cause the father to the believers is God Almighty. Uuuuuuuh!!! so think who will be your father in law. |
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estar
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Uganda
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 Posted - 02/08/2006 : 01:49:20
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 wo! i cant even start to imagine the devil being my father in law! but the trick is, especially for sisters; the bros dont know how to play their game well. course i dont blame them neither do i beleive that sisters should use that an excuse for eloping with the "cannanites". the point is, while the chiks work on their exaggerated expectations, the dudes should also apply some style to this thing; i mean holy style. |
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tyna
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Uganda
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Posted - 02/14/2006 : 11:33:18
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What a controversial topic and I am the queen of controversy I agree with estar though. The bros really do not give us gas top date them... it's sad.  But let me ask a question isn't there a way a non believer can turn to Christ because of a believers sister's character and aura? I've seen it done before and the 2 are happily married and fire spitting demon chasing etc.... anyway that's just a thought...as I said queen of controversy....
'THERE IS ONLY ON THING THAT MAKES A DREAM
IMPOSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE:The fear of failure'.
-PAULO COELHO |
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estar
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Uganda
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Posted - 02/15/2006 : 02:12:42
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aha...Queen of controversy! naye, if you know that there's fire next door, why go there. true there are successful cases but what is the ratio between the sucessful cases and the failures? my sample tells its often a 1 -in 10 situation. i mean, u can never guarantee. i've also know that those sucessful cases often pay too much, with their skin to get such results. i love comfort and would never put myself in crying situation when i know i can avoid.
that aside, there cases where in marriage, one partner gets saved - they not before they were married. that in my opinion is where the saved partner should not divorce but hang in there with the hope that his/her aprtner will also get saved. now how's that?
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Originally posted by tyna
What a controversial topic and I am the queen of controversy I agree with estar though. The bros really do not give us gas top date them... it's sad. But let me ask a question isn't there a way a non believer can turn to Christ because of a believers sister's character and aura? I've seen it done before and the 2 are happily married and fire spitting demon chasing etc.... anyway that's just a thought...as I said queen of controversy....
'THERE IS ONLY ON THING THAT MAKES A DREAM
IMPOSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE:The fear of failure'.
-PAULO COELHO
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estar
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Uganda
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Posted - 02/15/2006 : 02:15:38
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[quote]Originally posted by estar
aha...Queen of controversy! naye, if you know that there's fire next door, why go there. true there are successful cases but what is the ratio between the sucessful cases and the failures? my sample tells its often a 1 -in 10 situation. i mean, u can never guarantee. i've also know that those sucessful cases often pay too much, with their skin to get such results. i love comfort and would never put myself in crying situation when i know i can avoid.
that aside, there cases where in marriage, one partner gets saved - they not before they were married. that in my opinion is where the saved partner should not divorce but hang in there with the hope that his/her aprtner will also get saved. now how's that?
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tyna
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Uganda
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Posted - 02/28/2006 : 04:56:20
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I do get what you are saying estar dear but if the christian brothers don't start styling up and thinking they are too holy for themselves and start treating ladies like they should be treated then....KITALO!!!
'THERE IS ONLY ON THING THAT MAKES A DREAM
IMPOSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE:The fear of failure'.
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jeosh
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Uganda
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Posted - 03/26/2006 : 17:59:11
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Hey, what are we talking about here? Fire-light-darkness... looks to be a touchy topic to me. Know why? Some after going there, find it so tough to pull out of it!1 Some tempted to go there, look for execuses to go. What is the challenge at hand? Is it brothers who don't know how to get the sisters to feel some goose bumps? Is it the failure of sisters to wait patiently-especially those whom you ask "How old are you?" You get answers like 'am approachingg f***y' but never tells us from which direction they are approaching from! Age is a number-sister/brother, hold on.
On top, look below!
Josh |
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estar
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Uganda
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Posted - 03/28/2006 : 06:50:43
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| now that is veyr interesting jeosh. Age troubles! question: would you marry a sister whos's like... 5-10 years older than you? be honest and real. |
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tinda
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Uganda
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Posted - 04/06/2006 : 01:38:09
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hmmmm.....now guys!!! been gettin wat u guys r talkin about on tis topic.
i believe it`s a long shot in the dark wen a believer and non-believer date. u certainly cant know wat is on each other`s mind in terms of godly issues. one certainly cant tell me that....out there, one cant find a believer to date n finally commit their lives.
God gives us wat we can handle n so.....He cant bring "junk" into our lives.
u reap wat u sow!!! |
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shaykins
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 Posted - 04/06/2006 : 02:42:38
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Originally posted by tyna
What a controversial topic and I am the queen of controversy I agree with estar though. The bros really do not give us gas top date them... it's sad. But let me ask a question isn't there a way a non believer can turn to Christ because of a believers sister's character and aura? I've seen it done before and the 2 are happily married and fire spitting demon chasing etc.... anyway that's just a thought...as I said queen of controversy....
'THERE IS ONLY ON THING THAT MAKES A DREAM
IMPOSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE:The fear of failure'.
-PAULO COELHO
Hi Miss Controversy...i can see u living up to ur name...
"the bros really do not give us gas to date"
hmm.. Tyna dearie, when u go out on a date, what are your expectations? Why would a date with a non-believer be more interesting Is it the conversation? Missing something, I'm I
Remember 1 Corinthians 15:33, "Bad company corrupts good character."
When you accept a date you are essentially saying, "My values are the same as your values." That in itself can put you in a position you may regret later .
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tinda
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Uganda
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 Posted - 04/06/2006 : 02:59:52
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hmmm.....now i can see great contributions from a bro.....to a sis (tyna)....so tyna....just in case u r out on a date....know its different from dating....
out on a date means...havin an outing occassion wit some1....but dating.....is havin a intimate or feeling reproduced as a relationship of sorts tending to sharing each other`s life`s moments.
so....TYNA???? can u date a non-believer just becoz some brothers dont give ya gas???
style up gal lest u land on back instead of ya feet!!!
ciao
regards
u reap wat u sow!!! |
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jeosh
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Uganda
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Posted - 04/07/2006 : 08:34:27
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Hey tinda, that was very hot for sis Tyna! Huh! It landed quite close on ma foot, but didn't spill! Man, this topic will always raise alot of controversy whenever it comes up. That explanation of dating is quite simple-but unique! It makes me feel like 'hey, what happens on dates?' May be I always miss out on the real stuff, but wait a minute!!!! Sisiters, stop pushing bros so hard. Know why? When the guys get out of their [[[[what]]] you will not like the repercurssions! Know why? We'll have miracle babies, [oops you got married in May but Josh, Jr. comes in december] do you know why? Blame it on who?
On top, look below!
Josh |
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jeosh
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Uganda
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Posted - 04/07/2006 : 08:45:24
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C'mon Estar, that question was posed to make me centre of controversy so that we can have two 'controversial'! That's miss and Mr!!!! However, the baganda say "Ekigya omanyi, kinyaga bitono!" [am not a muganda though-but i can use the lingua!] Meaning--when you expect something to happen, it does not surprise you! I guess! But surely when you know that a rat is in the house [no ref to Mitchell guys here], you will be very careful where you leave your money oops food!
Would I marry a lady older than I am? Esp 5-10 years? What do you think? Where I was born [Ankole], culturally it is not legitimate! Where I am right now, many divorces that I watch on TV are usually between older women and young men! What does the church say? That age is just a number? That love covers a multitude of... including age? That we shall be made new? What are we talking about here? Why would somebody prefer a young boy than the old one!!!!!
Personally, I would prefer getting married to one younger than I am. Would I marry one older than me? Hmmm, well NO! NO! NO! NO! Do I despise them in such relationship? Irrelevant! Would I advise young men to get sugar from Mummies? Not at all. How about marrying older women? I wouldn't advise. Hey, wait one momemnt "Do we have same definition for marriage?" Hopefully!
On top, look below!
Josh |
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estar
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Uganda
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Posted - 04/07/2006 : 09:11:07
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guys, it's hot in here. definition of marriage?!!! i've gone to the viallge to a caz' grad. i hope to return with quite a size of knowledge on that matter - hopefuly, i will gather some ideas from the old folks as well as the pastors. so, see ya and by faith, i intend to bring eatc of you a piece of the "cake".
enjoy yo weekends |
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